If you've made it through all of my Brazil posts, kudos to you! This is the final one, so buckle up! I'll cover shopping, Penny growing up, home, and mission life.
Shopping
- Malls: are a big deal in Brazil! There are many malls and they're huge with several floors. I'm not sure what the big draw is, but they are air conditioned which provides a good respite from the heat! Many of the malls have movie theaters inside and we even saw a gym in one! Malls have several kid-friendly attractions. Some allow you to pay and let your kids play while you shop. You can rent little jeeps for your kids to drive through the mall and better yet, you can even rent one that allows you to control where your child drives/goes. My kids are old enough, we let them take the reigns.
- Craft Fair Earrings: on Saturday mornings, there is a local craft fair. My mom told me she thought I would love the earrings there and she was right! Earrings are the accessory I wear most. We found some keepers and they were dirt cheap. I may or may not have purchased several pairs for a favorite things gift exchange later this year... I also got some earrings to bring home for a couple of friends. My mom gave Izzy a pair of dangly earrings to go along with her new shoes for her birthday. I also got a perfect, pink crocheted doily.
- Kid Souvenirs: someday I'm hopeful that my kids will want something besides stuffies as souvenirs. This is my current phase of life though! At Iguazu Falls, the kids picked out birds that reminded them of the bird park we went to. They snuggled with and slept with these every night. At the zoo, the kids picked out monkeys and named them Goldie and Roxa (pronounced "Hosha" which means purple in Portuguese). Penny also got a bird.
Growing Up: Penelope changed right before my parent's eyes! Before the trip, she could sit up, but never would. She would arch her back and really disliked it. While in Brazil, Penny started sitting like a champ. She also decided it would be a good time to grow 2 teeth. Yes, 2! She slept horribly the entire trip and it answered a lot of questions when we saw the teeth pop through. Penelope went with the flow and took her naps on-the-go sometimes. She did start to have loud opinions about her carseat on car rides there which was a new development...
Home: how come I felt like I was home even though I was over 5,000 miles from my said home? My parent's home feels the same because they're in it. They went overboard to make everything nice for us. Here are some of the things they did that stand out:
- Daily wrapped presents: yes, you read that correctly. My kids got to open a little gift each morning when they woke up. They asked the instant their eyes opened to reveal their gift. Even though my parent's have been gone for 2 years, my mom is not out of touch with what my kids like. Their daily gifts included lots of stickers, coloring books, action figures, dolls, etc. and the kids were endlessly entertained.
- Workout equipment: my parent's have a teeny workout room. I got to workout in the mornings and it felt so good. I often worked out with my mom on the machine next to me and we talked a mile a minute. It reminded me of the old days. In addition to workout machines, we also walked a ton! I got over 10,000 steps everyday the first week I think.
- Home cooked meals: I don't know what my mom's secret ingredient is, but my food never tastes as good as hers. Even with different ingredients that she can't get in Brazil her spaghetti was more flavorful than mine! I couldn't resist her cookies either. She tried a recipe I like-- Mississippi pot roast and it was so tender and moist. She also made a yummy chocolate cake, tacos, and other things I'm failing to mention. I felt so taken care of! Someone was cooking for me for once! I was in no rush to get back to cooking on the daily for little tummies that are always grumbling. My mom also bought a variety of Snickers candy bars and we had a taste test to see which flavor was best. Let me just say that nobody picked passion fruit...
- Crafts: my mom started pressing flowers for my kids right after we booked our flights to Brazil. She had flowers pressed for months and pulled them out to do a craft with my kids! How thoughtful! My mom also made homemade playdough that the kids loved! She got supplies for bracelets too which kept the kids busy and happy.
- Apple chips: my dad brought his dehydrator to Brazil and still snacks on apple chips like they're chocolate. My kids had forgotten my dad made apple chips which broke my heart. He used to give the kids a bag full of them to enjoy on our drive home. My kids got to make apple chips with Papa! This brought me pure joy! Now maybe Papa can be remembered for that again!
- Games: in the evenings, we played games with the kids before bed. My parent's taught them how to play a classic favorite of theirs-- Dominoes!
- Cooking show MasterChef: Andrew and I got hooked on this show! We watched episodes each night with my parent's! It's such a fun competition. When we got home, we sadly learned that we can't access the episodes in the US. Andrew and I have instead been watching the show "Chopped" to get our cooking fix in.
- Balcony: my parent's have some good views from their apartment. Most nights we ended up eating popsicles taking in the perspective. My dad even moved his exercise bike and worked out on the balcony while we were there so Penny could sleep in peace.
Mission Life: I read my mom's diligent weekly emails and stay in touch with my parent's regularly, but seeing how much my parent's do first-hand was mind-boggling. When they're done with this gig, they might need to hibernate and take the longest nap known to man. They definitely have the energy for it though and their 150 missionaries are lucky. My parent's are assigned to speak in many stake conferences throughout the year and while we were there, we got to listen to them speak. They thought ahead and had missionaries sit by us and translate the meeting which was much appreciated! Though, Andrew diligently did Duo Lingo for 331 days before our trip! What a guy! If you know my mom, you know of her love for music. She opted for playing a piano duet with me to replace her talk. She did talk briefly and introduced the song, "The Spirit of God" and testified. How amazing that my mom can speak the language! She's studied so hard. We played the duet on a keyboard at the stake center and it wasn't the best instrument to say the least but I appreciated the experience. Soon enough we'll be whipping out "Sound of Music Duets" again for fun.
My dad interviewed missionaries while we were there. This is time consuming and mentally taxing. Imagine having 150 kids! They had one of their most challenging weeks while we were there and some of the stuff you just can't make up. My mom deals with missionary health concerns. She gets pictures of all sorts of gross body parts, warts, and hears many details that are TMI but she handles it all beautifully.
My parent's do a lot of traveling because their mission spans a huge area! It's bigger than the state of UT. n fact, a handful of missionaries are in another time zone. This means that my parent's do mission prayer twice each morning. Once at 6:45am and again at 7:45am. James cherished morning prayer and was up plenty early for it. My parent's also do zoom family home evening and I got to answer some questions during that. My mom recorded my kids singing "Book of Mormon Stories" and played that for the missionaries as well. You can't get much cuter than that. In case you're wondering, my parent's haven't changed much. My dad still rises at 3:45am each morning (Sometimes 4) and works out. My mom still makes cookies around the clock for the missionaries and weas her wrinkle patch each night. (Shhh that's a secret.)