I think the news hit me extra hard because I was teaching school at the time and had 9 year olds in my class. I tried to imagine what it would be like if one of them found out that they had cancer and how devastating that would be. The day following the hard news about Claire, I told my students about the cancer. This was the only time my students ever saw me cry. I couldn't control my emotions.
Claire has such a unique personality and is so fun to be around! She loves animals and is very bright. Claire is extremely good at games and beats many adults. Claire is also a talented musician and sings exceptionally well. Claire didn't let cancer get the best of her and fought so hard, even though it was tough.
It's hard for me to imagine what Claire went through during the last two years. I do know that she: 1) Lost all of her hair 2) Had multiple overnight stays in the hospital 3) Had to follow a very strict pill schedule 4) Was unable to attend school for a while.
Despite everything that she went through, Claire kept a positive attitude and so did her parents. I remember hearing Deena (Claire's mom) talk about the cancer. Basically, Deena said that Claire got cancer at the best age she could have. She explained that having cancer as a teenager would have been very difficult. She also mentioned that dealing with cancer earlier in life would have been extra challenging because Claire wouldn't have understood what was going on. I am astounded at Deena's optimism.
Claire is now done with chemo treatments! There is no better reason to have a party. We were able to go to Spokane to be at the celebration. It was an unforgettable night and I even teared up a bit . (I'm not much of a crier.) At most Ditto parties or big events, there is a variety/talent show. This party followed the Ditto tradition with a neat program. Claire was the finale and changed the words to the song, "You're Welcome" from Moana. She thanked everyone for all of the support and did some impressive rapping. Once she finished, she got a standing ovation. It was such a powerful moment. Not only did Claire do a fantastic job performing the song, but Claire survived cancer. I was very touched to see everyone on their feet to celebrate such a big moment.
The party included the largest dessert bar I've ever seen! Everything was so delicious and the church cultural hall was decorated beautifully. The party ended with some loud music and dancing. The next day we were able to spend time with ALL of Andrew's siblings and nieces and nephews. Everyone was together (except Alex who is on a mission) which is so rare with a group of over 40 people!
Even though I still clearly remember how heartbroken I was to hear that Claire had cancer, I now have a much happier memory fresh in my mind.
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